Inequality.
A concept adopted by generations of ignorant minds.
A concept prominent in all walks of life, and schools are no strangers to it. This system is considered so
‘normal’ that now if anyone speaks about it, it is called being a ’feminazi‘. There is no particular school
that does not practice it. Certainly, many cases are unintentional. Yet this practice affects millions of
innocent people worldwide.
Now, how can individuals tackle these stereotypes?
Firstly, girls should learn to recognize the supposedly insignificant instances of gender bias. Even a small
case, such as a teacher or member of staff or student saying,”Let the boys do it.” for a job any girl could
handle easily, is a moment of inequality. At such moments girls should put their feet down firmly but
politely. This is no outright war, this is no revolution. It is, however, a revolutionary step and every single
person’s contribution pushes the cause closer to the finish line.
Secondly, step out of the box. Try out for the football team or the cricket team. Never worry about
looking ‘dumb’ and certainly do not worry about anyone making fun of you. People might judge, but
why should their personal judgements impede your potential to be a trailblazer?
Thirdly, support others who have the courage to speak up and speak out on behalf of the quiet lips.
Support those making an effort. It will go a long way.
A concept adopted by generations of ignorant minds.
A concept prominent in all walks of life, and schools are no strangers to it. This system is considered so
‘normal’ that now if anyone speaks about it, it is called being a ’feminazi‘. There is no particular school
that does not practice it. Certainly, many cases are unintentional. Yet this practice affects millions of
innocent people worldwide.
Now, how can individuals tackle these stereotypes?
Firstly, girls should learn to recognize the supposedly insignificant instances of gender bias. Even a small
case, such as a teacher or member of staff or student saying,”Let the boys do it.” for a job any girl could
handle easily, is a moment of inequality. At such moments girls should put their feet down firmly but
politely. This is no outright war, this is no revolution. It is, however, a revolutionary step and every single
person’s contribution pushes the cause closer to the finish line.
Secondly, step out of the box. Try out for the football team or the cricket team. Never worry about
looking ‘dumb’ and certainly do not worry about anyone making fun of you. People might judge, but
why should their personal judgements impede your potential to be a trailblazer?
Thirdly, support others who have the courage to speak up and speak out on behalf of the quiet lips.
Support those making an effort. It will go a long way.
These are small steps and once they are implemented, you will see a change.
However, remember a few things:
1. The best way to combat small minds is for YOU to have an open one. Find out why people say
what they say and then put across your point assertively but not aggressively.
2. Do not let your emotions get the better of you. In school especially, be practical. If a teacher
asks a muscular boy to pick up something heavy, don’t go advocating equality there because
that is not a question of equality. It’s making sure students are safe and not in harm’s way.
3. This is not a war. Don’t treat it like one.
4. If others make fun of you, remember that they secretly admire your daring.
I’d like to conclude by reminding everyone of this:
In order to maintain social norms, never fling aside the unique talents you have, especially not where
girls are concerned, because opportunities for them are, in many places, rare.
An initiative I propose:
DSPS Women’s Week and DSPS Men’s Week. I, Lamya Butt, would absolutely love to have the privilege
of organizing it if I am provided with the opportunity to do so.
However, remember a few things:
1. The best way to combat small minds is for YOU to have an open one. Find out why people say
what they say and then put across your point assertively but not aggressively.
2. Do not let your emotions get the better of you. In school especially, be practical. If a teacher
asks a muscular boy to pick up something heavy, don’t go advocating equality there because
that is not a question of equality. It’s making sure students are safe and not in harm’s way.
3. This is not a war. Don’t treat it like one.
4. If others make fun of you, remember that they secretly admire your daring.
I’d like to conclude by reminding everyone of this:
In order to maintain social norms, never fling aside the unique talents you have, especially not where
girls are concerned, because opportunities for them are, in many places, rare.
An initiative I propose:
DSPS Women’s Week and DSPS Men’s Week. I, Lamya Butt, would absolutely love to have the privilege
of organizing it if I am provided with the opportunity to do so.
Written by Lamya Sikandar Butt (9C)
Edited by Anupama (9C)
Compiled by Aryan (9C)
Edited by Anupama (9C)
Compiled by Aryan (9C)